I AM

We’ve all heard it.
Someone says, “This is going to change my life.”

And every time, I cringe.

Because I know what’s about to happen.

“Why Does This Keep Happening to Me?”

You’re not cursed. You’re not stuck. Life isn’t against you—it’s reflecting you.
In this episode, I break down how your identity—your “I AM”—shapes your experiences. The patterns you keep running into aren’t punishment... they’re feedback.
Once you stop trying to change your life and start choosing who you are, everything shifts.
Let’s explore how to reclaim your power—no change required.

"The Importance Of Now!"

Think about this 

When are you living? Yesterday, Now or tomorrow?

Which one of these do you have control over?

Which one of these holds you back?

"Now" refers to the present moment—the point in time that is happening right at this instant. It’s the only moment you can truly experience and act upon because the past is already gone, and the future hasn’t arrived. You can control now.

Why are you always angry at everything, or, conversely, why are you always positive and happy? The body, in essence, becomes the mind, the triggering chemicals produced in the body are orchestrated by your thoughts. What you think triggers specific neural and hormonal responses, leading the body to manufacture chemicals that align with and reinforce those thoughts. This means your beliefs and mental focus shape your emotional state and, over time, can solidify into habits or even a perceived identity. It’s a dynamic feedback loop where thought influences chemistry, and chemistry, now in turn, reinforces thought, where now your Body becomes your mind.

Just for a moment have you tried to change and been absolutely frustrated?

Just for a moment have you ever thought that personal change was a futile attempt?

Just for a moment have you ever thought that we are not meant to change..but meant to BE?

Today, we're diving deep into a topic that has shaped societies throughout history:

Government Leadership and the control of….'Choices.' 

Governments and leadership already know that the power is in not controlling the idea of 'Change' but in the power of controlling 'Choices.'

Have you ever done something you knew you shouldn’t have, then immediately asked yourself, “Why did I just do that? I know better!” You tell yourself, “I don’t act like that. I never act like that. So why now?”

We then berate and beat ourselves for doing what we know we should not be doing, yet we did it anyway, wondering why we repeat behaviors that lead us nowhere.

Why? Why do we tend to conduct a ritual that we know is detrimental and unresolving?

We have all told someone this or have been told ourselves, "Why are you so lazy?"

But what is actually behind the word lazy?

We are transfixed on the term only as the unwillingness to get up and move, but there is more to this.

New Year's Resolutions start on January 1, but what happens to most of them on January 17 and why?

Does Motivation Work? We think it does; we hope it does because we all initially react the same way. It is that burst of an external stimulant that reacts to our internal identity. But now that it has been presented to us, what will we do with it?